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Aparna Pandey, a commercial artist who recently filed for divorce, faced an unusual problem, and her husband filed a claim for all her assets.
Aparna Pandey, a commercial artist who recently filed for divorce, faced an unusual problem, and her husband filed a claim for all her assets, and she went bankrupt after the divorce.
Her busy schedule gives her husband the opportunity to decide on her investment.
After the divorce, she realized that although she was convinced that he had invested in her name, he did the opposite.
Not just an apartment.
Sarah Mathew is more willing to ask her husband to take care of the home loan, while she helps with other expenses.
Three years later, when they filed for a divorce, Sarah's husband had their home and she had nowhere to go.
"I made very well, but I never thought about saving money," she said . ".
"I think my husband will take care of my needs like my father did.
Every month, I buy electrical appliances, decorate the interior and pay for the help of the house.
I insist that he save money when I spend money.
Now I realize it's a bad decision.
She added that although the house was built in the name of her husband, she even helped him with a house loan and she was excluded from the house once she got divorced.
Many women let their fathers, brothers and husbands control their money.
This can cause a lot of trouble if divorce or death.
I don't know where your money has invested or whose name it has invested, and if divorced, it may lead to bankruptcy.
Financial adviser Vinayak Kulkarni said that emotional decisions made by women as wives often have the greatest impact on her in divorce or widowed.
"Men are better at investment planning than women because their decisions are not emotional.
It's a stupid decision to have your husband or father in control of your finances.
Women's financial knowledge rarely goes beyond fixed deposits and mutual funds, experts added.
Because of this, women often allow their husbands to make all major financial decisions.
Zankhana Shah, financial advisor and money care owner, has been organizing workshops for women --
Especially divorced women.
She said that while women are known to be housewives better than financial planners, they should start to control their money.
"I talk to female clients with their father or husband because they prefer that.
But this nature of dependence does not work, "she said.
It's not just managing your finances from day one.
Experts added that if not careful, women may lose money without knowing how.
Economic ignorance is not only a problem for divorced women.
"The problem may be with a widow who is not interested in her husband's finances and suddenly finds herself at a loss in paperwork," she said . ".
In addition, women splurge on shopping, destroying a large part of their investment.
"Unlike their spouse, they spend a lot of money on gold, diamonds and overseas vacations just to feel good, especially after divorce.
"If you don't control this, women may lose a lot more than they planned," she said . ".
Buck won't stop here.
If women do not check their financial position after divorce, they may end up being responsible for the husband's expenses.
Like the 28-year-old Mela Sen. year-
The old advertising executive said, "after the divorce agreement was signed, I thought the financial issue was over, but that's not the case.
My husband and I have a joint credit card and he continues to use it even after we are separated.
After I received the statement, I realized how much money he spent with me and had the same responsibility for the cost.
"The other thing most women don't know is that they can claim the assets they have before marriage.
Lawyer Bazel Menezes said, "No matter whose name the property/asset is, if the wife or her father presents it to her husband after divorce, the property/asset belongs to the wife, she can make a claim against it.
The name number on the property name board does not matter.
Experts say it's actually a good thing to know that divorce can bring financial chaos to this woman --
It may help women in the future.
"Knowing that this can happen to anyone will ensure that women are more cautious about investing," said Zankhana . ".
"We should stop thinking about just managing the family and start thinking about how to manage our finances.
We already know how to make a living. Now we need to learn how to invest the money independently and well.
"Women should be careful to see the cancellation of the joint account/credit card/policy once divorced.
"Once divorced, it is not easy to transfer a common account because there may be issues such as self-conflict," Zankhana added . ".
Pratima Pai, a doctor who divorced her husband at the age of nine, added: "Even if it is too early, women should insist on managing their finances on the day of marriage.
Insist on becoming a nominator for all joint accounts and LIC policies.
Any investment by a woman should be made in her name or she should be nominated.
Pratima said she was happy that the issues had finally been resolved, although her economic struggle continued after the divorce.
"My money is invested in an account under my husband's name.
I sued the court for this and it took a few years to get my dues.
But it's all worth it.
With this money, my daughter completed MBBS studies abroad.